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How to Get Seller Financing Without Ever Asking For It

Why asking for seller financing kills deals, and the deal-debt-equity order I used on 23 of my last 30 purchases to buy over 400 units.

Broke people ask for seller financing.

People come to me at the beginning of a deal saying, "Hey, I don't have any money, I'm going to need to learn how to seller finance like you did on your last 23 deals so I can start scaling." I understand the instinct. It's also exactly backwards.

I'm Christian. I run Multifamily Strategy and two property management companies, I own over 400 rental units, and I bought a majority of them with seller financing: 23 or 24 of my last 30 deals. We've used many other types of creative finance too, plus a little sprinkling of conventional financing. And I'll tell you plainly: you do not need seller financing to get started, and if you open a conversation with it, you're thinking about it wrong.

Here's what to do instead.

The Car Dealership Test

Imagine you walk onto a car lot.

"Hi, I'm looking to buy a car."

"Excellent. I have great cars. I can sell you a car."

"All right. What do you have?"

"Well, the car isn't in yet. But when I do have a car in, it will be fantastic and you will love it."

"Okay. How much am I going to need to put down on this car?"

"Well, it depends on the make and model that I find. But it'll be reasonable, and it will be good."

That's weird. You leave.

I don't know why this doesn't automatically apply to houses and apartments, but it's the same thing. If you don't have a product you're selling, you can't align a debt product to it and you can't raise capital. The money doesn't matter yet.

So if you came here thinking you'd learn how to buy properties $0 out of pocket, I will show you how, but the path isn't hunting for seller financing. We're not searching online asking what's seller financeable. We're not filtering for seller finance listings. We're not targeting listings at all.

We're looking for deals.

Deal, Then Debt, Then Equity

That's the order, and it never changes.

On a deal you can win on two sides: you can win on the terms, or you can win on the price. If you win on both, congratulations, that's an amazing deal. But you only need one. What you do need is for it to cash flow on long-term, cash flowing, fixed rate debt. If you can do that, you can buy infinite amounts of real estate: you can do it again and again, and every time you close, your income goes up.

If you can't win on price and you can't win on terms, you don't have a deal yet. Don't buy it. It's that simple.

Leading with financing is basically putting a sticker on your forehead that says "Hello, I'm broke and I don't know what I'm doing." So instead, ask about the deal exactly the way you would if you were getting a bank loan.

Tell me about the property. Is it still available? Why are you selling? If you're talking to a broker: what do we know about the seller's motivation, why are they selling right now, and what's their goal with the transaction?

You already know what your goal is: long-term, cash flowing, fixed rate debt, permanently increasing your income by buying a property. What you need to learn is what they're trying to solve. Estate planning? Scaling up? Scaling down? Getting liquidity? Supplementing their income? If you can figure out the actual objective, that's enormously helpful later.

Talk About Their Financials, Not Your Money

Jump to the money and you sound broke. So we talk about the financials of the deal instead. No one cares about your money right now.

What does income look like? What do you think it should be? What's the highest rent we've proven we can get there?

I don't want to see the pro forma: that's projections, which is a nice way of saying made-up numbers, and it's what a broker will send you. What I want is proof.

Here's the difference. Say it's a 10-plex and all the units are the same, two-bed two-bath. A lot of them rent at $800, but two of them rent at $1,000. I believe a pro forma that says we can get rents to $1,000, because you've proven it twice. That's a reasonable assumption.

Now, if the broker says market rate is $1,250: if that's true, why haven't they gotten it there? That's the kind of question I want in an actual conversation. I don't want to pay for work that hasn't been done yet on a project. That's my upside, my work, and my risk.

Let the Bank Question Do the Work

Only after the deal do I get into financing, and not my financing. Theirs.

Based on the price you want, how do you think the bank is going to look at this? Do you think we'll be able to swing this one at 80%? What obstacles do you foresee us running into at the bank level? I want to make sure we get the financing.

This is where sellers tell you everything. They'll bring up the deferred maintenance that needs addressing to get the right insurance to make it bankable. They'll mention the income today might not fit the bank's standards: that's the debt service coverage ratio, or DSCR. They'll say the bank might need more down to make it work.

That's really good to know. And notice what just happened: it sets the stage for seller financing without you ever asking for seller financing. We're still talking about the deal, not about my money.

From there we talk through all the available debt products. If bank financing is perfect for the property, we'll very likely use bank financing. We found our debt product, done.

But if there's deferred maintenance, bad bookkeeping, or not enough income for a bank loan yet, then it's natural and normal to say: it looks like the deal works, but with the right debt product: it doesn't look bankable today. I'd like a path to get control of the property and get it where it needs to go. If you believe we can hit this income like I do, we shouldn't have any problems operating it.

Then I give them a 20-second spiel on what I'm actually doing. I'm on a mission to retire my wife through real estate, so I'm after cash flow, and here's exactly what that looks like. For this project, this is just about what I'm looking for.

Make a Proposal, Not a Request

Do not throw out "Are you open to carrying a contract?" or "Would you entertain seller financing?" You're teeing yourself up for a no.

All you're doing is saying what you're thinking, with numbers attached.

I need to get the income up on this to get bank financing, so I'm going to need some time, and the interest rate where this works is going to be about 5%, and then I give them the actual payment. On this million-dollar property, I can put $100,000 down, or I can put $200,000 down. This deal is only going to work at 5% interest while I get these incomes up, or do these renovations, or make these repairs, or get the right insurance, whatever it is on your project.

Even if you don't have that down payment yet, you're going to find the money. Figure out the debt first. Deal, then debt, and then we'll figure out the rest of the money.

Then you explain why you're using the financing you're using to get the project where it needs to be, and that when it works great in bank financing, we can do a refinance and cash you out. That's the same thing any bank would look at: if it's not conventionally bankable, why are we looking at cashing them out? Let's build a roadmap that gets them exactly where they want to go.

You are not asking them to concede anything. You are giving them a plan to get them exactly what they want. That is the difference between an experienced investor and a rookie trying to buy zero-down real estate.

Be specific on time, too. This works at 5% interest and I'm going to need three years. I might bust it out in two, but to be safe, three, four, five years.

And here's what I keep finding: many of my seller finance notes exist because the seller's actual goal was long-term income for their family. A lot of them pitched me on seller financing: "Well, you can cash me out, but if I can get a little more in price…" I have 10-, 15-, and 30-year seller finance notes. You can absolutely get long-term debt even when someone wants to be cashed out. We learn that in the conversation, and then our proposal matches what they're trying to do.

Where the Down Payment Comes From

You might be thinking: you just said $100,000 or $200,000 down. That isn't low or no money down.

The beauty is that there are a lot of other ways to bring in that money. Equity partners. Private capital. A second note. A pledge agreement to get your LLC. There are many ways to cover a down payment.

But we don't know what returns we can offer an investor, and we don't know how much excess cash flow there is to support additional debt, until we've negotiated the deal and the primary first-position debt product.

That's your mission on the call: negotiate to the deal and the debt. If there's room at the end to push the value of the property, or so much cash flow that you can take on additional debt, you've answered the question for the remaining capital. Then you line that capital up with the right investor.

Back to the car. Now I have my vehicle. Before, you didn't know what you were getting. Now the car is in the shop: it's not a Ferrari, but it's a lot nicer than your Honda Civic. We're working with this Lexus, we're getting a fantastic price on it, and the payments are within your budget. I can match the opportunity to the right person because I actually found the deal and the debt product. I can tell you what it costs, what the cash flows are, everything about the vehicle.

That's what you're building. Every time you negotiate a deal, you're creating an investment vehicle.

Key Takeaways

  • Deal, then debt, then equity. In that order, every time.
  • You can win on price or on terms. Win on one and it's a deal; win on neither and you don't have a deal yet, so don't buy it.
  • Opening with "will you seller finance?" signals you're broke. Ask about the property, the seller's motivation, and what they're trying to solve.
  • Ignore the pro forma and ask for proof. Two units already rented at $1,000 makes a $1,000 rent projection believable; a broker's claim of $1,250 just raises the question of why they haven't gotten there.
  • Ask how the bank will see the deal. The seller will hand you the deferred maintenance, the DSCR problem and the down payment gap themselves, which is your opening.
  • Give a full proposal with real numbers, a real rate, a real term and a refinance exit. Don't ask for a concession, hand them a roadmap to what they want.
  • Sometimes you get 100% seller financed. It's rare. Mostly this is how you lay the groundwork to get your offer accepted.

Creative finance is awesome. It can get you into deals no one else can do, and it's ludicrously simple if you follow the order. Watch the full video for the complete walkthrough of the conversation, start to finish. There's also a free course on getting started in multifamily investing, a free Skool community with a deal calculator in it, and a link in original episode description if you want to learn about my mentorship.

Read the episode transcript

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0:00 Broke people ask for seller financing.
0:02 At the beginning of the deal, people
0:03 come to me saying, "Hey, I don't have
0:04 any money. I'm going to need to learn
0:05 how to seller finance like you did on
0:07 your last 23 deals to start scaling." By
0:09 the way, if you don't know who I am, I'm
0:10 Christian. I run multif family strategy,
0:12 two property management companies, over
0:14 400 rental units, and I was able to buy
0:16 a majority of them through seller
0:18 financing. Now, while there's many types
0:19 of creative finance that we've used in
0:21 our portfolio, as well as a little
0:23 sprinkling of conventional financing,
0:25 you do not need seller financing to get
0:27 started. And if you open with that,
0:29 you're thinking about it wrong. On
0:31 today's video though, I'm going to show
0:32 you exactly how to do it. So, let's
0:33 roll. Hey everyone, welcome back to
0:35 Multif Family Strategy. Again, my name
0:36 is Christian. I'm super excited to share
0:38 this with you today because I'm going to
0:39 share what I think really is the secret
0:41 to seller financing. You don't lead with
0:44 financing. Now, first thing I'm going to
0:46 do in every opportunity is dealt equity.
0:48 And if you follow the channel for a
0:49 while, you've heard this a million
0:50 times. I want you to imagine a car
0:52 salesperson. You are going to go buy a
0:54 car. So, I don't know why this doesn't
0:56 apply to everyone automatically for
0:57 housing and apartments, but play this
1:00 out with me. You go to a car dealer.
1:02 Hey, I'm looking to buy a car.
1:04 Excellent. I have great cars. I can sell
1:06 you a car. All right. What do you have?
1:08 Well, there uh the car is not in yet,
1:10 but when I do have a car in, it will be
1:12 fantastic and you will love it. All
1:15 right. Um, how much am I going to need
1:17 to put down on this car? Well, it
1:18 depends on the make and model that I
1:20 find, but it will be it'll be reasonable
1:22 and it will be good. Okay.
1:24 weird. I'm going to go ahead and leave.
1:26 Now, if you don't have a product that
1:28 you are selling, you can't align a debt
1:30 product to it. You can't raise capital.
1:32 The money doesn't matter. So, if you're
1:34 watching this video and you're like,
1:35 "Wait a second. I thought I was going to
1:36 learn how to buy properties $0 out of
1:38 pocket magically on this video." I will
1:40 show you how to do that. But the way
1:41 that you go about it is not looking for
1:44 seller financing. We're not searching
1:45 online going, "What is seller
1:47 financable?" or "Look for only seller
1:48 finance listings." We're not targeting
1:51 the listings. We're looking for deals.
1:52 Now, on a deal, you can win on two
1:54 sides. You can win on the terms or you
1:57 can win on the price. And if you win on
1:59 both, congratulations. Just amazing
2:00 deal. But you can do a deal on either
2:02 one. You need to make sure that it cash
2:04 flows in long-term cash flowing fixed
2:07 rate debt. If you can do that, you can
2:09 buy infinite amounts of real estate. You
2:10 can do this again and again and again.
2:11 Every time you close, your income goes
2:13 up. If you can't win on price and you
2:16 can't win on the terms, guess what? You
2:18 don't have a deal yet. Don't buy that.
2:20 It's that simple. So, instead of
2:22 discussing the financing first, which is
2:24 basically putting a sticker on your
2:26 forehead saying, "Hello, I'm broke and I
2:28 don't know what I'm doing," we're going
2:29 to ask them about the deal like we would
2:31 if it's bank financed. Tell me about the
2:33 property. Is it still available? Why is
2:35 it that you're trying to sell it? Or if
2:36 you're talking to a broker, what do we
2:38 know about the seller's motivation? Why
2:41 are they currently selling? And what is
2:43 their goal with the transaction? What
2:46 you're trying to do in the beginning of
2:47 the conversation is you already know
2:48 what a goal for you is. is long-term
2:50 cash flowing fixed rate debt. We want to
2:51 increase our income permanently by
2:53 buying a property. Now, on their end of
2:55 the equation, what are they trying to
2:56 solve? Are they trying to do estate
2:58 planning? Are they trying to scale up?
3:00 Are they trying to scale down? Are they
3:01 trying to get liquidity? Are they trying
3:03 to supplement their income? What is the
3:05 actual objective? If you can figure out
3:06 the objective, that's very helpful. Now,
3:09 we talk about the deal. If you jump into
3:11 the money, again, you're just going to
3:12 sound broke. So, we talk about the
3:14 financials of the deal instead of your
3:16 money. No one cares about your money
3:18 right now. We're going to talk about,
3:19 okay, talk to me about what does income
3:21 look like? What do you think it should
3:22 be? What's the highest rent we've proven
3:24 we can get there? I don't want to see
3:25 proforma, but if you have, which means
3:28 basically made up numbers, that's what a
3:29 broker will send. The projections is the
3:32 perform. What I want to see is if you
3:34 have a building and say they're all the
3:36 same. They're all two-bedroom, two bath
3:38 units, it's a 10plex. And while a lot of
3:41 them are rented at 800, you have two of
3:42 them rented at a,000. I believe a
3:45 proforma that says we can get rents to a
3:47 thousand because you've proven that you
3:49 can do it two times over. I think that's
3:50 a reasonable assumption. Now maybe the
3:53 broker is saying well market rate is
3:55 a,250. If that's true, why haven't they
3:57 got it there? These are the type of
3:59 questions that I want to start having in
4:00 an actual conversation. I don't want to
4:02 pay for work that hasn't been done yet
4:04 on a project. That's my upside and my
4:06 work and my risk. But we're talking
4:08 about the deal. Then I get into the
4:10 financing. All right. Based on the price
4:12 that you want, how do you think the
4:13 bank's going to look at this? Do you
4:14 think that we're going to be able to
4:15 swing this one 80% down? What What
4:18 obstacles do you foresee us running into
4:21 at the bank level? I want to make sure
4:23 we get the financing. This is where they
4:25 bring up there's some deferred
4:27 maintenance that we may need to address
4:29 to get the right insurance to be
4:31 bankable. So, deferred maintenance,
4:33 we've asked the question, hey, the
4:35 income today might not quite fit into
4:38 the bank's standards for income on the
4:40 property. Call this the DSCR, debt
4:42 service coverage ratio. Income might be
4:44 a little low. They might need more down
4:46 to make this work. Okay, that's really
4:48 good to know. This is setting up the
4:49 stage for potential seller financing,
4:51 but again, we're not talking about our
4:54 money or the financing. We're talking
4:55 about the deal. Then we're talking about
4:57 all the available debt products. So, if
4:59 we go through and we find that bank
5:01 financing is perfect for the property,
5:03 very likely we're going to use bank
5:05 financing. We found our debt product. If
5:07 we found there's deferred maintenance,
5:09 there's bad bookkeeping, there's not
5:11 enough income to get a bank loan yet.
5:14 Now, it is natural and normal to ask the
5:16 question, all right, it looks like the
5:18 deal works. If we can get the right debt
5:20 product, it doesn't look like it's
5:22 bankable today. I would like to get a
5:24 path for me to get control of the
5:25 property and get it to where it needs to
5:27 go. If you believe that we can hit this
5:30 income like I do, we shouldn't have any
5:32 problems operating it. I'll give them a
5:35 20 second spiel on here's what I'm
5:37 trying to do. I'm trying to retire my
5:38 wife. So, I I am after cash flow. I am
5:40 on a mission trying to retire my wife
5:42 through real estate. This is exactly
5:43 what it's going to look like. Uh for
5:45 this project, this looks like just about
5:48 what I'm looking for. Again, not
5:49 bringing up the financing yet.
5:52 I need to get the income up on this to
5:53 get the bank financing. So, I'm going to
5:56 need some time on this and the interest
5:58 rate where it looks like this is going
5:59 to work is going to be about 5%. which
6:01 is going to result in and I will give
6:03 them the actual payment. So what what
6:06 I'm thinking and then give them an
6:07 actual proposal. Don't throw out like,
6:09 oh, are you open to carrying a contract
6:10 or would you entertain seller financing?
6:13 You're teeing yourself up for a no. All
6:15 you're asking is, hey, this is what I'm
6:17 thinking. I'm thinking on this
6:18 million-doll property, I can put
6:20 $200,000 down. Even if you don't have it
6:22 yet, you're going to find the money.
6:23 Figure out the debt first. Deal, then
6:25 debt, and then we'll figure out the rest
6:26 of the money. So I I can put 100 down or
6:28 I can put 200 down. this deal is only
6:30 going to work at 5% interest while I
6:33 actually get these incomes up or I do
6:34 these renovations or I do these repairs
6:36 or I get the right insurance whatever it
6:38 is that you're doing in your project.
6:40 You explain why you are using the
6:41 financing that you are to get to where
6:43 you need the project to be at such time
6:46 it works great in bay bank financing we
6:48 can go ahead and do a refinance so we
6:49 can cash you out. This is what I think
6:51 any bank is going to look at as well is
6:53 hey if it's not conventionally going to
6:55 be bankable why are we looking at
6:57 cashing them out let's come up with a
6:58 roadmap to get them to exactly where
7:00 they want to go you are not asking them
7:02 to concede anything you are giving them
7:04 a plan to get them exactly what they
7:06 want that is the difference with an
7:09 experienced investor negotiating a deal
7:11 is we're doing the deal first then we're
7:14 talking about the debt products and then
7:15 we're giving them an actual proposal
7:18 this works at 5% interest I'm going to
7:20 need three years. I may be able to bust
7:22 this out in two years to be safe, but
7:23 three, four, five years. Many of my
7:25 seller finance notes, I have found that
7:27 the seller's actual goal was, I'm
7:29 looking for a long-term income for my
7:31 family. Many of them, they they pitched
7:33 me on seller financing. They're like,
7:34 "Well, you can cash me out, but if I can
7:37 get a little bit more in price, I have
7:39 15, 10, and 30 years seller finance
7:42 notes. You can absolutely get long-term
7:44 debt if someone wants to get cashed
7:45 out." We learned that in the
7:47 conversation and now our proposal
7:49 actually matches what they're trying to
7:50 do. And this is the difference between a
7:53 rookie investor trying to buy zero down
7:55 real estate and an experienced investor
7:58 coming in and buying low to no down real
8:00 estate. Now, you may be thinking, and
8:02 rightly so, wait a second, you just said
8:05 200 or $100,000 down. That's not no to
8:08 low down real estate. Well, the beauty
8:10 of that is there's a lot of other ways
8:13 that you can bring in money. You can
8:14 bring in equity partners. You can bring
8:16 in private capital. You can get a second
8:17 note. You can do a pledge agreement to
8:19 get your LLC. There are so many
8:21 different ways that you can bring in the
8:23 down payment. But we don't know what
8:25 returns we can offer an investor or we
8:27 don't know how much excess cash flow
8:28 there is for additional debt until we
8:30 negotiate the deal and our primary first
8:34 position debt product. That is your
8:36 mission on the call. Negotiate to the
8:39 deal and the debt. If there is room at
8:41 the end where there is room to push the
8:43 value of this property or there's so
8:45 much cash flow you can take on
8:46 additional debt. You've answered the
8:49 question for the remaining capital. Now
8:50 we're going to line up that capital to
8:52 whatever investor. Remember the car
8:53 analogy. I now have my vehicle. Okay.
8:57 You didn't know what you were getting
8:59 car-wise. Well, now the car is in the
9:01 shop. No, it's not a Ferrari. It's also
9:04 a lot nicer than your Honda Civic. Our
9:06 actual deal here, we're working with I'm
9:08 not a car guy, but we're working with
9:10 this Lexus and it has we're getting a
9:12 fantastic price on it. The payments are
9:14 now within your budget. I can line up
9:16 the opportunity to the right person
9:18 because I've actually found the deal and
9:20 the debt products. I can tell you what
9:21 it costs. I can tell you what the cash
9:23 flows are. I can tell you everything
9:25 about our actual vehicle. And that is
9:27 what you are building. Every time you
9:28 negotiate a deal, you're creating an
9:30 investment vehicle. Sometimes you get
9:32 100% seller financed. It's rare.
9:35 Usually, this is how you lay the
9:37 groundwork to get your offer accepted,
9:39 and that is how you do seller financing.
9:41 For context, I've done this on 23 or 24
9:44 of my last 30 deals. Creative finance is
9:47 awesome. It can get you into deals that
9:49 no one else can do, and it is
9:50 ludicrously simple if you follow the
9:53 order of deal debt equity. I'll see you
9:55 on the next episode.

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